Friday, November 20, 2009

Counting Your Blessings

I was just doing my normal daily routine as always and as always, I start out and end each day with a prayer, meditation, I call it “my workshop” about all that I’m grateful for and intending for my future.

Today isn’t particularly different than other days.

Actually, I live a very blessed life and I’m very, very grateful for it.

However, just a moment ago, I noticed so much good in my life to be grateful about, I thought I should take a moment to write it down and share it with you.

Maybe it is because the holiday of Thanksgiving in the United States is next week.

Maybe it is just that it hit me to be particularly thankful for my wonderful life.

Whatever the reason, I just want the world to know, I’m thankful for all I’ve been blessed with.

I love all my family and friends.

I’m grateful for all my life experiences (even the ones I wouldn’t want to re-live) because they are what brought me to where I am today.

Could my life be better? Sure.

And it is getting better and better all the time.

Have I had troubles, mistakes, issues, difficulties and losses in my life? Sure.

Here I am.

The people who really love me know all my ups and downs and still love me unconditionally.

The ones who do not understand Law of Attraction and that THEY and only THEY have created, are creating and will always create their own life, may have difficulty understanding all this.

I know that me, myself and I have created everything that has ever been or will ever be in my life.

If not the exact incidences, I created my reaction to them which affected me and therefore drew more of that to me, good or bad.

I know that.

I, just like all the people I have coached in the past and help with posts here now, am a “work in process” and am getting better and better all the time.

Now that I’ve been inspired to write all this, I sit here and ponder… what is the purpose of this? (especially since I’m results oriented.)

I believe at this moment the purpose of all this is to remind all of us to be thankful, to count our blessings, to know we are solely responsible for our lives and to intend happiness and joy in the future.

By putting your attention, intention on and feeling the emotions of appreciation and thankfulness, you draw more things that make you feel appreciative and thankful to you.

Law of Attraction makes it so.

Whether it is a holiday in your country or not, be happy and thankful.

Happy Thanksgiving !

Sunday, October 4, 2009

The Basic Universal Laws - Law of Attraction by Abraham-Hicks

Here are the audio clips I suggest from the http://www.abraham-hicks.com/ site.

I recommend you listen to these very often if you want to create the life you want deliberately as soon as you possibly can by shifting your vibration.

They are very brief and explain the basic Laws of Attraction, Deliberate Creation and Allowing and how to use them to have the life you want.

Law of Attraction 4 minute audio

Law of Deliberate Creation 3:57 minute audio

Law of Allowing 4:51 minute audio

How your guidance system helps you 3:11 minute audio

How to get along in all relationships using the Laws 2:24 minute audio

There are more short audios as background and further information at the Abraham-Hicks audio introduction site here.

Click above, scroll down the page and click on the arrow on the left of whatever segment you want to listen to in addition to the ones I posted above.

Here is to all of you creating your perfect life in every moment of now.

Kathy Hadley

Saturday, October 3, 2009

How? How? How? How? Do I get what I want?

How? The answer is so simple most people just can't accept it. I'll tell you how a little further along. First let's look at another great Abraham-Hicks quote:

“You could stand here sick with ten illnesses today, and tomorrow have no evidence of any of them. Your body has the ability to replenish itself that fast. But most of you do not have the ability to change your thoughts that fast. So the amount of time that it takes between sickness and wellness is only the amount of time that it takes for me to figure out how to let it in -- for me to figure out how to feel good, when I'm looking at something that makes me feel bad.”
--- Abraham
Excerpted from the workshop in Atlanta, GA on Saturday, November 4th, 2000 #207

Good quote. The interesting thing is this applies to everything; money, relationships, business, everything you want. You are either looking at what is and telling that story and getting more of what is or you are gradually stating a belief of a new story of what you want.

I see this with people all the time. Over and over and over and over and over and over.

Even those who give great advice to others and tell them, stop telling that story of what you don’t want.

Yet, they look at their own life and say, but it is true. The truth is I don't have this and I don't have that. Afterall........they go on and on.

I've even personally seen people have what they were asking for a little and in that moment of having it instead of being happy about it, they still tell the story of…..”but in the future, I don't have this”............and the Universe gives them MORE of the NOT having of it.

They just don't see it. Not only do they not see it, but they argue for the way they DON'T want it.

"But IT IS this way!" They exclaim to me repeatedly. And I say, "Of course, it is this way. You keep putting your thoughts, intense emotions and words on exactly how it is that you DON'T want and thus getting more of it."

I try to tell them, “look, just last week or last month or yesterday you had this (something wanted).” Trying to get them to build on the WANTED! But nope, they just would rather argue with me.

“Well Kathy” , they say,” it isn't there now is it. I can't just sit around and wish these things to happen. I have to work. I have to work hard. Nothing is going to just come to me by sitting around on the couch and wishing it so.”

And right at that moment, I think the same thing; they just don’t get it yet.

I know that no matter how much anyone thinks they know about LOA or universal laws by any name, when they say something like that, I totally know, I need to back up and go over the basics, one more time.

Which are these: All things are energy. You create by putting your attention on something. The more powerful you feel about it, the faster it manifests. This is an INCLUSIVE universe. Whether you strongly don’t or do want something, either way, you are attracting it.

You by the power of your attention are ALWAYS RIGHT! You will “be right” even to the point of continuing to attract what is not wanted.

If you believe that you have to push, push, push to make anything happen or create the life you want, you do.

If someone else believes that they can create what they want by asking and feeling like they already have it and that they will be guided if and when any action is to be taken toward their goal, they will.

There is no sense in arguing about it because what someone strongly believes is INDEED true to them. They will attract every person, place, thing, situation to prove it over and over again.

NOW, the big question that I get all the time…..I’ll repeat that……that I get all the time.

HOW??????

How do I get more money? How do I get my perfect relationship? How do I boom my business? How? How? How?

And the answer is very unsatisfying to most of you because it just seems too simple after all the work you’ve done.

You ask.

Yep, that is it. You ask.

You ask by where you put your attention. You ask by the feelings you feel.

You ask by being, doing and having the thoughts and feelings as if you already have what it is you want.

Or you ask for more of the same unwanted by talking about it, thinking about it, worrying about it, being fearful about it. You see.

Or you could be more deliberate to ask for what you really want.

You can do your best to feel a little bit more like you could have it. You find joy in what you already have.

As for tools and processes to help you do that…..there are thousands.

Visualize it, listen to music that makes you joyful, write it down, journal daily, make and look at a vision board, there are thousands of tools to help you do it.

I like to take time first thing ever morning and last thing every night and do what Abraham calls a workshop. I am grateful for all the blessings in my life. I think of all the wonderful things I have already. I think of all the things I want and I ask for those things and for guidance that if there is any action to take, I will know and be guided what action and when.

I also listen to pleasing music at different times of the day, eat foods I enjoy, talk to people I like etc. every day. I keep my attention on what is wanted the majority of the time.

Try those things or find other tools that help you to be in alignment with your bliss and joy. Because, the only reason you want anything different anyway is because you think that in the having of it, you will be happier.

So just be happier and thus you will be in the vibrational alignment with that which you want to attract and thus will attract it.

Abraham Hicks has everything you need to know to be, do or have anything you want at their website as free audio. http://www.abraham-hicks.com

Abraham-Hicks also has many great videos on YouTube that can help you.

Take some time right now and shift your point of attraction more toward what you want by listening to this information.

Rampage of Invincibility by Abraham-Hicks on YouTube

Enjoy!

Follow your bliss.

Right now, take some time and feel a bit better about anything.

You never get it wrong because you never get it done.

I wish you all the best!

Kathy Hadley

Wednesday, September 23, 2009

Are you deliberately creating your life?

I have been asked probably thousands of times the same question: "How can I get Law of Attraction to work for me?"

The answer from me and everyone else who understands Universal Laws knows the answer is this:

"Law of Attraction is constantly working every moment of every day bringing you more of that which you but your attention on. You don't have to MAKE IT WORKS. It just is working."

As Abraham says, the reason that question keeps getting asked is because the answer is not satisfying to the majority of people.

People want to know that there is something that they can "turn on" to get Law of Attraction (LOA) to work for them for what they want.

And that is just not how it works.

LOA is working 24/7 non-stop all the time for everyone.

The real question for people could be phrased more like this: "What do I need to do, if anything, to apply LOA deliberately so that I get what I want and not more of what I don't want".

That is what I've been helping people first to realize and then to apply in their own lives with great success.

There are thousands of books, websites, coaches, audios and videos about all of this already.

Then why would ANYONE still be coming to me (or anyone else) for help.

Because they have not yet realized that they can either put their attention on what is wanted or they can unknowingly keep putting their attention on the worries, upsets, cares and woes of what they don't want and keep getting more of that.

LOA works perfectly all the time. You keep lamenting something that is wrong and you will sure enough, keep getting more of it.

I find those who seem to think they know the most on this journey of life the most challenging ones to get to see that THEY are the ones that keep putting their own attention and emotion on unwanted things and thus getting more of it.

ok.

I could go on and on about that, however, that's not my style. My goal is to get on with it. Give people something they can do right now to get positive results.

First, realize now, right now, that YOU and ONLY YOU are the ONLY person who is now, has ever or will ever be the creator of YOUR life.

YOU GET ALL THE CREDIT FOR EVERYTHING WANTED AND UNWANTED IN YOUR LIFE!

That should be a very freeing realization because if YOU are the only person who is in charge of YOU, then YOU only have to work on YOU in order to get what you want.

Second, take a real good look at your day to day activities.

Listen folks, that is where all this creation is happening.

Yes, sitting down to meditate or going to seminars and reading books are all great, but the MAIN amount of creation for wanted and unwanted things that are happening in YOUR life is in the moment by moment thoughts, emotions and habits you are in.

Those are the things you are getting more of.

It is that simple.

I use the analogy of "the tail wagging the dog". Backwards, yes, but that is what most people are unknowingly doing.

You wait until something apparently "bad" happens and then you REACT to it.

Stop right then. Ask yourself, would I be doing this action or thinking this thought IF my life was only filled with what is wanted.

The answer is probably NO!

It can even appear that what you are doing is a "good" thing. But be aware.

For example:

You could have been meditating all last night for perfect interactions at work. You arrive at work the next morning and "all hell as broken loose".

So you decide that you are going to find an inspirational quote and send it out to all the staff because that will help everyone get along better.

Now, ask yourself, would you have sent out an inspirational quote to all the staff for them all to get along better if they were indeed getting along.

NO!

If you deliberately are creating your life and thus pre-paving and believing for the wanted you have launched out into the Universe, then if you did indeed come into work and everyone else was upset, it would NOT affect you. You would be in a different vibrational realm then all of them.

This is where allowing comes in.

If on the other hand, you do let it affect you vibrationally, then you are like all the billions of people oN the planet who are wondering...

"How do I get Law of Attraction to work for me?"

Abraham has all the basics on audios on their website for free easy to listen to sections and Abraham has a wonderful YouTube channel where you can listen to these lessons for free.

The steps of applying Law of Attraction deliberately toward wanted things are simple and spelled out for free in those places.

Here they are again in brief:

Ask - you simply ask for what you want without contradicting it with thoughts of lack, limitation or unworthiness.

It is Given - This is not YOUR work. The Universe always answers your vibrational requests, it matches them perfectly constantly.

Receive - Allow the good to come to you. This is where allowing comes in from the above example. You stay focused on your want and feel the feelings of already having it so that you are a vibrational match to what is wanted regardless of what is happening around you.

That's IT!!

Now, find joy. Moment by moment ways to appreciate what you already have. Desire more things that you can believe that you can have now.

Relax.

As Abraham says "You never get it wrong and you will never get it done."

My wish for all of you is that you deliberately create your most perfect life in each moment.

Kathy Hadley

Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Today is September 09, 2009 - 09 09 09

For many people there is a great significance in today's date
being 09-09-09.

For me, of course, that is fine.

I personally believe what Neal Donald Walsh states in his book "Conversations With God":

"Nothing has a meaning until you give it one."

If someone gives today a meaning and in doing that it brings them joy, I'm in alignment with it.

Not that I personally think anything has any meaning other than what someone gives it, I thought I would find a high vibration, joyful, uplifting meaning for 09 09 09 and pass it on.

Here is one I found:

"Nine: The spiritual meaning of the number 9 brings us to the very height of vibrational frequencies. Nine represents attainment, satisfaction, accomplishment and our success to achieve an influence in our circumstances.

The spiritual meaning of the number nine deals with intellectual power, inventiveness, influence over situations and things.

Nine beseeches us to recognize our internal attributes and extend these abilities out into the world to make a positive, influential difference."


That is a uplifting and powerful message.

If you are in alignment or want to be, with those attributes, then believe that today....09 09 09 is the day for you to begin to succeed, fulfill your dreams, be more joyful and get a bit closer to creating the life you want.

Have a happy, joyful, deliberately created 09 09 09!

Kathy

P.S. And on any other day, just decide to be better and better. ;_)

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Videos on YouTube from Abraham-Hicks

Basically, anything you need to know to learn, understand and apply the Law of Attraction can be found in the Abraham-Hicks YouTube videos, their books and audios.

I highly recommend that you get this information direct from source.

I will be posting inspirational messages here, however, I am not taking on people to personal life coach any longer.

Enjoy the videos and remember, you and you alone create your life.

Learn how to do it deliberately and not by default with the help of Abraham-Hicks and many other great writers.

Friday, July 31, 2009

A Rose by Any Other Name.....

Like most people, I have many people in my life; family, friends, business associates, acquaintances, etc. and I have always been very interested in people. I find all the differences and life stories of people fascinating.

I also find personal joy and happiness in helping people.

Anyone who knows me well knows the things I say often. One of those things is....even though some people may use different words, they could be saying the same thing.

Personally, I don't get too attached or concerned with what words someone uses as long as I can understand the intention behind the words.

So when someone is talking to me about Universal Laws whether they are quoting some scripture, a book, a philosopher or anyone, I look for the similarities and the intention behind the words. More often than not the intentions are the same.

I use the "words" to describe my process of coaching as Law of Attraction, Law of Deliberate Creation (which is Law of Creation) and Law of Allowing.

You can find these same or similar concepts by other names. It all boils down to the same basic intention.

In my coaching, I'm all about results, not so much what your particular belief structure is or what you want to call something.

It's all OK with me as long as I'm in alignment with the heart and intention of it so that I can be joyful in our interactions.

So, just as "a rose by any other name will smell as sweet" ......a positive, beneficial to all, life philosophy that gets results is fine by me regardless of what you call it.